Comments on: Ouch. http://www.thatfatchick.com/2008/07/16/ouch/ A fat chick chronicles the journey to lap band surgery Thu, 02 Feb 2012 02:24:16 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: julie http://www.thatfatchick.com/2008/07/16/ouch/comment-page-1/#comment-78 julie Sat, 02 Aug 2008 21:22:04 +0000 http://www.thatfatchick.com/?p=32#comment-78 I am sorry you had this experience with your hubby. Please remember there are plenty of us here who will always understand and respect your feelings. I am sorry you had this experience with your hubby. Please remember there are plenty of us here who will always understand and respect your feelings.

]]> By: Lynn http://www.thatfatchick.com/2008/07/16/ouch/comment-page-1/#comment-76 Lynn Wed, 23 Jul 2008 19:40:49 +0000 http://www.thatfatchick.com/?p=32#comment-76 I can completely relate to this post. I have tried several times to talk with my husband about my emotional/weight issues, and the conversation always ends up about him somehow! I always find myself fluffy his feathers and reassuring him about what a great person he is. HUH!? He takes my problems personally for some reason; bad husband = fat wife? Whatever!!! This isn't about you Mister. Get over yourself! I have also battled with bulimia for years, and sometimes when I express how full I feel after eating, he suggests I get rid of it. He REALLY doesn't get it. So, I turn to all of you in Bloggyland and my very best friend who is fighting the same battle. Good luck to you. I can completely relate to this post. I have tried several times to talk with my husband about my emotional/weight issues, and the conversation always ends up about him somehow! I always find myself fluffy his feathers and reassuring him about what a great person he is. HUH!? He takes my problems personally for some reason; bad husband = fat wife? Whatever!!! This isn’t about you Mister. Get over yourself! I have also battled with bulimia for years, and sometimes when I express how full I feel after eating, he suggests I get rid of it. He REALLY doesn’t get it. So, I turn to all of you in Bloggyland and my very best friend who is fighting the same battle. Good luck to you.

]]> By: Diz http://www.thatfatchick.com/2008/07/16/ouch/comment-page-1/#comment-75 Diz Sat, 19 Jul 2008 02:40:46 +0000 http://www.thatfatchick.com/?p=32#comment-75 I wish I had the words, but I don't. However, I do have hope. Want some? We're out here for you. The bloggers on this journey share all kinds of crap and totally "Get It". We may have people in our lives that don't get it, but you know what? We will persevere without them. We are strong. Each of us has taken a huge step to get healthy. We have felt the ridicule, the loss of breath, aching joints, staring at ourselves in the mirror, the struggles to building up our exercise slowly, so as not to damage ourselves due to the extra weight. We're still here, we're not going anywhere and we will support each other, uplift each other AND WE WILL SUCCEED! So we're here for you. When you needs us...let us know. I wish I had the words, but I don’t. However, I do have hope. Want some? We’re out here for you. The bloggers on this journey share all kinds of crap and totally “Get It”. We may have people in our lives that don’t get it, but you know what? We will persevere without them. We are strong. Each of us has taken a huge step to get healthy. We have felt the ridicule, the loss of breath, aching joints, staring at ourselves in the mirror, the struggles to building up our exercise slowly, so as not to damage ourselves due to the extra weight. We’re still here, we’re not going anywhere and we will support each other, uplift each other AND WE WILL SUCCEED!

So we’re here for you. When you needs us…let us know.

]]> By: Sarah http://www.thatfatchick.com/2008/07/16/ouch/comment-page-1/#comment-69 Sarah Thu, 17 Jul 2008 01:57:25 +0000 http://www.thatfatchick.com/?p=32#comment-69 you are aware of this resource I hope: http://www.obesityhelp.com/forums/LapBand/a,messageboard/board_id,5359/ you are aware of this resource I hope:
http://www.obesityhelp.com/forums/LapBand/a,messageboard/board_id,5359/

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