It’s me, Lori, from LoveMyLapband.net – I know lots of family members have problems when their loved one makes a big definitive move to lose weight. I haven’t heard about it manifesting itself in quite that fashion, but I know husbands frequently get cranky once the day starts actually arriving. It signals an impending power shift in the relationship and perhaps more autonomy on your part. He may be wondering if you’ll still want him. I knows lots of guys will point out that when a woman starts worrying about her appearance, it means she’s getting read to move on – as if that’s the only reason to want to look good. Sheesh.