http://www.thatfatchick.com/2008/03/23/its-me-again/ A fat chick chronicles the journey to lap band surgery Wed, 08 Sep 2010 01:03:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 http://www.thatfatchick.com/2008/03/23/its-me-again/comment-page-1/#comment-218 Ashley Mon, 01 Dec 2008 14:39:49 +0000 http://www.thatfatchick.com/2008/03/23/its-me-again/#comment-218 The comments I have gotten have all been before I said I was going to have the surgery. I remember my Dad saying things to me since I was a little kid. My Husband says things too sometimes. The thing about that is he's fatter than I am. We are hurt by these comments even if we say we aren't. I hate both of them a little for the things they say. I love them both very much too. To be perfectly honest... it never went to rage with me, just hurt. I didn't realize how depressed it made me feel, so I ate my feelings and got bigger. My husband hasn't really said much else to me since I said I was having it done. And if he starts... well I know that one day people are going to look at me and ask themselve what that thin woman is doing with that fat man..... and he'll feel sorry for making fun. The comments I have gotten have all been before I said I was going to have the surgery. I remember my Dad saying things to me since I was a little kid. My Husband says things too sometimes. The thing about that is he’s fatter than I am.
We are hurt by these comments even if we say we aren’t. I hate both of them a little for the things they say. I love them both very much too. To be perfectly honest… it never went to rage with me, just hurt. I didn’t realize how depressed it made me feel, so I ate my feelings and got bigger. My husband hasn’t really said much else to me since I said I was having it done. And if he starts… well I know that one day people are going to look at me and ask themselve what that thin woman is doing with that fat man….. and he’ll feel sorry for making fun.

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